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Poznata glumica smogla snage da progovori o nasilju: 7 dana bila sam u modricama, i danas se sećam tog srama (FOTO)

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Slavna glumica otkrila je istinu o nasilju koje je trpela od bivšeg dečka, i dodala da joj sadašnji suprug pruža veliku podršku.
foto: Instagram
foto: Instagram

Amber Tamblin, koja se proslavila ulogom u seriji "Doktor Haus", rešila je da progovori nakon što je čula kako Donald Tramp vređa žene. Kao odgovor Trampu koji je, između ostalog, rekao da "ženama može da radi sve samo zato što je slavan", Amber je na Instagramu podelila intiman i potresan događaj iz svog života.

 

Bila je zlostavljana, a sada je jača i lepša nego ikad: Pevačica kojoj mnogi ne znaju pravo ime je nekada ovako izgledala (FOTO)

 

Moram da vam ispričam jednu priču. Pošto imam podršku svog supruga odlučila sam da ovo javno podelim. Davno sam bila u emotivnoj vezi sa muškarcem koji je bio fizički nasilan prema meni. Jedne noći izašla sam u grad sa drugaricama. Bile smo na nastupu di-džeja kojeg svi volimo. Znala sam da postoji mogućnost da na toj žurki vidim bivšeg dečka, ali sam se sa mojim devojkama osećala sigurno. Da ne detaljišem previše, reći ću vam samo da se bivši pojavio i prišao mi u masi ljudi. On je ogroman, viši od mene. U trenutku kada me je ugledao prišao mi je, jednom rukom zgrabio za kosu, a drugu mi zavukao ispod suknje i uhvatio me za međunožje. Podigao me je s poda i izneo iz kluba kao neko smeće.

 

 

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Nosio me je kao da sam njegovo vlasništvo. Njegovi prsti su bili u meni, a drugom rukom me je čvrsto držao za kosu. Vrištala sam, otimala se... Moje drugarice su trčale za njim, pokušavajući da ga zaustave. Kada smo došli do izlaza, sreli smo njegovu braću koja su se umešala. Hvala Bogu što su bili tamo. U toj tuči mi je trgao odeću, vrištao na mene i na kraju mi pokidao ogrlicu koju sam dobila od bake. Ostatka večeri se ne sećam, sve mi je u magli. Ne sećam se kako sam došla do auta. Ni kako sam pobegla od njega.

 

Ogrlicu nikada nisam ponovo stavila, a onaj deo mog tela, koji je predsednički kandidat Donald Tramp opisao kao nešto što može da hvata, bio je narednih minimum sedam dana u modricama. Jedva sam obukla farmerke. Nisam mogla da spavam noću bez jastuka među nogama. I dan danas se sećam tog trenutka. Tog srama. Plašim se da će moja majka da pročita ovo. Još više se plašim da će ova priča doći do mog oca. To bi mu slomilo srce, a ja ne bih mogla da podnesem. Ali vi me razumete, zar ne? Morala sam da podelim priču sa vama", napisala je glumica i poručila gledaocima da "uživaju u debati" između Trampa i Klintonove."

 

I need to tell you a story. With the love and support of my husband, I've decided to share it publicly. A very long time ago I ended a long emotionally and physically abusive relationship with a man I had been with for some time. One night I was at a show with a couple girlfriends in Hollywood, listening to a DJ we all loved. I knew there was a chance my ex could show up, but I felt protected with my girls around me. Without going into all the of the details, I will tell you that my ex did show up, and came up to me in the crowd. He's a big guy, taller than me. The minute he saw me, he picked me up with one hand by my hair and with his other hand, he grabbed me under my skirt by my vagina— my pussy?— and lifted me up off the floor, literally, and carried me, like something he owned, like a piece of trash, out of the club. His fingers were practically inside of me, his other hand wrapped tightly around my hair. I screamed and kicked and cried. He carried me this way, suspended by his hands, all the way across the room, pushing past people until he got to the front door. My friends ran after him, trying to stop him. We got to the front door and I thank God his brothers were also there and intervened. In the scuffle he grabbed at my clothes, trying to hold onto me, screaming at me, and inadvertently ripped off my grandmother’s necklace, which I was wearing. The rest of this night is a blur I do not remember. How I got out to the car. How I got away from him that night. I never returned for my necklace either. That part of my body, which the current Presidential Nominee of the United States Donald Trump recently described as something he’d like to grab a woman by, was bruised from my ex-boyfriend's violence for at least the next week. I had a hard time wearing jeans. I couldn’t sleep without a pillow between my legs to create space. To this day I remember that moment. I remember the shame. I am afraid my mom will read this post. I'm even more afraid that my father could ever know this story. That it would break his heart. I couldn't take that. But you understand, don't you? I needed to tell a story. Enjoy the debates tonight.

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