Jelena Đoković: Ovo je zaista moćno i motiviše me (FOTO)

Humanitarka Jelena Đoković, supruga najboljeg tenisera Novaka i majka malenog Stefana, podelila je sa mnogobrojnim pratiocima veoma jaku poruku....

Jelena Đoković

Novak Đoković se obratio Jeleni: Draga, moramo da pravimo još beba!

Ova izreka je izuzetno moćna i motivišuća. Uvek se trudim, dam sve od sebe, da prvo razumem drugu stranu pre nego što donesem sud. To je nešto što sam od roditelja i sestre naučila, nešto što sam takođe i u svom suprugu prepoznala.

Okružena sam ljudima koji se uvek trude da prikupe sve moguće informacije, da sve uzmu u obzir, sve razlike, pre nego što donesu jake odluke. Teško je kraj socijanlih mreža isključiti glasove.

Biće ljudi koji će vas maltretirati: koji će vam govoriti da niste baš pametni (naravno da je tako, zato i učimo svakodnevno; ništa nije definitivno dok sami tako ne rešite), koji će vam govoriti da niste baš lepi (lepota je u oku posmatrača), da niste toliko važni (zavisi od perspektive. Našoj smo porodici veoma važni i vredimo, tako da...) i tako dalje.

Ozlojeđenost, to je sinonim za mržnju, gorčinu, animozitet, za sve loše čega se možete setiti...

I find this quote truly powerful and very motivating. I always try hard and give my best to understand the other side of the story before I judge. It is something I learned from my parents and sister, and something I found also in my husband. I am surrounded with people who always make sure to check the facts and take into consideration all the differences before jumping to harsh conclusions. With the social media, it is quite hard to tune out all the voices. There will be people who will bully you: - tell you that you are not so smart (lol, of course we aren't, but that's why we learn all the time; it is not a definite thing, unless you chose it to be); -not so pretty (well, definition of beauty varies from one to another); -not so important (depends on the perspective. To our family we are quite important and valuable. So there goes one) ... And so on. Resentment is a synonym for hatred, bitterness, animosity, and all ill and awful things you can think of. Now, before you spread hate through your actions, and think you are hurting somebody else: think twice. You are drinking your own poison. You cannot correct wrong by hating or judging. You can help it find it's good place by offering your understanding, forgiveness and appreciation of the differences. We all grew up with different models. We have different perceptions of success, power, maleness and femaleness, motherhood, friendship, love.... So, sometimes the best is to agree to disagree and let go. Not try to right the "wrong" by spreading hatred. #stopcyberbullying

A photo posted by Jelena Djokovic (@jelenadjokovicndf) on Jan 16, 2016 at 12:27pm PST